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Selfish Act

November 14th, 2008

Permalink 08:42:00 PM, by Suman Kundu Email , 343 words
Categories: My Life, My Philosophy

Selfish Act

Each and every human has some negative emotions. I am not different either. However, I always try to minimize (Avoid is quite impossible) THE driver of these negative emotions; the driver I am talking about is "Ego". Any way this write-up is not about the driver, it is about one of its outcome. Being Selfish i.e. you are too much concerned about yourself and it prevents you from doing right things in right moment. Sometime it hurts others sometime it restricts you from helping others.

Now, come to my story. It happened today November 14th, 2008. I got news that our result is published. I finished my work quickly and hurried towards my campus. I found I got quite a decent score as expected (Because my exam was very good). First thing came to my mind was that check the scores of those person who could compete me for the position. Quickly check all those scores to determine my position in our discipline. Wow I am in top three. I was so much concentrated about me and my score that I forgot to inform all of my friends about the news and their scores. Even I did not note down their marks. Though I collect information about some of my very very close friend but forgot about most of the others who are expecting something more from me. Even I did not realize the fact unless I got the phone call from one of them asking me whether I knew the news or not. I had no answer, no explanation to give; at least to me. "I really forgot you my friend!!!" is the only explanation I could give to myself.

You may thing, what the silly thing I am thinking about. I also tried to support myself by this explanation. But at the end of the day I am not happy. Actually, I am "I AM" because of others; if you remove them from my life I become nothing. Yes it is true. True for each and every individual of the world.

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Comment from: Asmita Nag [Visitor]
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Ta r ki korbi bol.. Tui barojor ekkhan mail korte partis "Friends, our result is published" bole..
November 17th, 2008 @ 19:12
Comment from: Biman Saha [Visitor]
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After reading this,i think i should write a blog with a title Selfish Acts.....
November 18th, 2008 @ 08:21
Comment from: Suman Kundu [Member] Email
@Asmita
Er theke besi kichu korar chilo na hoyto... Tobu etao to kori ni re...

@Biman
Keno re?? Tor hothat erokom mone holo keno re????
November 18th, 2008 @ 21:01
Comment from: Onkar Nath Das [Visitor]
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Mistakes like this weighs a KG, realizing, feeling and expressing sorry weighs a ton. BRAVO!
December 9th, 2008 @ 16:51

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